Friends: An Introduction

As a parent, you want to make sure that your child maintains positive relationships with her or his friends, but you also don’t want to seem intrusive by closely monitoring all of your child’s friendships. How do you create a balance?

Did You Know?

  • Almost three out of four teenagers (72 percent) say they are good at making and keeping friends.
  • Friends are often positive influences in children’s lives. In fact, 65 percent of teenagers surveyed by Search Institute say that their best friends model responsible behavior.
  • Sixty-four percent of parents surveyed say they spend time each day getting to know their child’s friends. 1

Because your child’s friends play such an important role in his or her life, it’s crucial that you do what you can to make sure that those relationships are positive ones. By staying informed and involved in your child’s life, you can ensure that you’re able to encourage positive relationships and help steer negative ones to a positive direction.

Frequent Questions and Concerns about Friends

Find the answers to common questions and concerns about your child’s friends.

Encouraging Positive Relationships

Kids will meet new people, join new groups, change friends, and develop new relationships many times before they truly find the group they “fit” with. And although you can’t choose your children’s friends, you can have a positive influence on the relationships they make throughout their formative years.

Choosing Friends

All children go through many phases with their friends, and everyone has to choose their friends while they’re growing up—talk to your child to make sure that he or she makes good decisions when choosing friends.

Getting to Know Your Child's Friends

By getting to know your child’s friends, you can gain some insight into the relationships that your child is involved in—and keep an eye on those relationships to make sure they stay positive.

When You're Worried about Your Child's Friend

There are many reasons you may become worried about your child’s friend—but no matter the cause, there are things you can do to make the situation better.

Friends: Summary and Next Steps

Find valuable resources regarding your child’s friends.

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1. Developmental Assets: A Profile of Your Youth (Minneapolis, MN: Search Institute, 2005), 2003 weighted aggregate dataset, unpublished report.

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